I'm not much of a competitor. Perhaps I'm fooling even myself when I claim to be noncompetitive. I'm as human as everyone else so I like to come out on top too. I suppose nobody likes to be beaten, but I have to say that I'm pretty quick to give up or give in when the competition gets intense. I just don't like the feeling of competing.....fear of losing most likely.
There is one thing in which I continue to strive for. "I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus." (Philipians 3:14 NIV)
In this, there is no longer fear of losing. The outcome doesn't rest on my ability or talent, not even on my determination. I do not compete against you or any other person for the victory that is mine.
"...thanks be to God! He gives us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labor in the Lord is not in vain." (1 Cor. 15:57-58 NIV my emphasis)
The victory I have, has been given not won. It did not require team effort. I have accepted it not earned it. I can't lose it.
Because of this huge victory, I purpose to "Rejoice in the Lord always...and to let my gentleness be evident to all, to not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present my requests to God.... knowing that the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus. I purpose that whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable--if anything is excellent or praiseworthy--I will think about such things I know that I can do all this through Him who gives me strength." (personalized selections from Philippians 4:4-13 NIV)

